Information for families at the end of life

Knowing where to get help and information can help you look after someone with pancreatic cancer who is nearing the end of their life.

Looking after someone who is nearing the end of their life can feel overwhelming. Knowing where to get help and information can take some of the pressure off and can help you make the most of the time you have left with your loved one.

Key information for families and friends

  • Looking after someone who is nearing the end of their life can feel overwhelming. Make sure you get emotional support if you need it.
  • As someone approaches the end of their life, their care is focused on managing symptoms and emotional support.
  • People can be cared for in their home, in hospital, a care home or at a hospice.
  • If you are caring for your loved one at home, there can be a lot to do and think about. Ask the doctor or nurse for details of who to call if you need help or advice, especially at night or at weekends.
  • If your loved one is in hospital, a care home or at a hospice, find out about visiting arrangements. Your family member may want relatives to stay overnight or might want their pet to visit.
  • Ask friends and family to help with anything you need. People are often happy to help out but struggle to know what they can do unless you tell them.
  • Think about anything you want to talk to your family member about, or how you would like to make the most of your time together.
  • People may have different symptoms in the last few days, and there may be signs that the end of life is near.
  • There is support available to help you cope with grief and loss after someone dies.

Speak to our specialist nurses

Our specialist nurses on our free Support Line support families and carers, as well as people with pancreatic cancer. You can ask them any questions you have, as well as talking through your worries.

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Pancreatic Cancer Nurse Jeni Jones

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Published August 2024

Review date August 2027